Hello Bees!
I am know just engaged, and really debating on having bridesmaids or not. I love my friends, but I really feel that the day of the wedding is about the couple and not the hoopla that often goes with it. I want them to enjoy the day and time, not feel obligated to buy a dress and all that goes with it. While I do have friends and everything (it’s not that I don’t have friends!! 
) I just want to minimize any chance of drama or problems.
My best friend knows how I feel about it, and she already said no matter what she would take care of planning typical “MOH” duties. I am her MOH in her wedding, but she also has (at current count) 15 maids. I have seen and felt the stress, and I really want my friends and family to enjoy the wedding.
What are your experiences and pro/cons with having Maids or not having Maids?
Please and Thank you!
